It was august
13, 1999. Where are they, where are they????? Was my first thought after I was stepping
out of the airport, I was looking all over the place for my two older sisters, I
hadnt seen them in a very long time, since they left our country for second time in
1998. I felt so excited of seen them again. When I finally spotted them at the door, I was
like Oh my god!!!!!!! And they said, " You have grown a lot" I really remember
that day, I will never forget it, I could smell a new air and hear many people speaking
only English that I couldnt understand a word. This was the first change I felt in
this country. In Peru my best friend was Nancy, a sweet
girl who was always there when I needed someone to talk to and we were together in god and
bad moments. She knows everything about me (I guess), I will tell you how she is: she is a
skinny girl, so nice, friendly, of about 5,1 feet, long brown wavy hair and she is so
cool, very hyper, a supper student and is always good at school, she also loves to dance,
I think that is one of the million reasons we are best friends, because I was just like
her, friendly, hyper, always dancing and a good student like twin souls. I know everything
about her, I know that she lives with her stepfather, but she would love to live with her
real father, and I know that when she is doing bad on school is because she has a real
serious problem in her house and I try to reanimate her and tell her that if she fails
school there would be more problems at her house, and so she did to me every time she
noticed anything strange on me. I remember so good my "Graduation Day", I was
like "Oh my God, Im going to be in High School", But when I got to the
place where the party was going to take place I noticed that Nancy wasnt there and
she didnt show up either. It was so sad not to graduate with her, but what happened
is that her stepfather didnt want her to go to the party and her mother only obeyed
him, so thats the reason of why she didnt show up, but everything wasnt
that bad, we all had a good time, I could see everybody smiling, I could feel people
happiness and everything, thats something I will never forget about my country, the
good moments I have had with all my other friends that are Cristina, Cesar, Freddy,
Nathaly, Angelica, Fernando, Virna, and some others, I havent talk to them since I
left, with exception of Nancy and Cristina, but I have send them letters. I think that
Cristina is my second best friend, but not as good as Nancy, because she doesnt know
everything about me as Nancy does. Im happy to have them as friends because I can
count on them all the time, anytime.
In this country I have two best friends, I know it doesnt
sound real, but it is true, their names are Cindy Gonzales (15) and Rosemary Holguin (16),
they both are from Colombia and I love them. Let me describe them to you, Cindy is a
skinny girl, pretty and petite, of about 5 feet tall, long wavy brown hair and she is so
nice to me and everybody, her famous phrase is "Que mas ve?"; Rosemary is a
pretty girl, of about 5,8 feet or maybe more, medium size brown curly hair, and she is so
funny and vacana, her famous phrase is "Ve esta Nina". One thing we like to do
together is hang around school, go to parties and go to the mall to see clothes and takes
many pictures of the three of us. Cindy was one of my first friends in this school with
Alma Alarcon, another good friend of me, she is from Ecuador and she is 15 years old. We
also have a good time with her, because we all make jokes and laugh at everything, I
remember the last day of school, Cindy, Rosemary and I went to a party with some other
friends from this school, we had such a great time, I think it was one of my best days in
this country, after the party I was saying what a great party and all of my
friends agreed with me. This year I have met some other good friends, they are Clara
(Colombia), Tatiana (Ecuador), Estefania (Argentina) and Lizzeth (Ecuador). In this school
I have many friends from different countries like Colombia (Clara V, Willy M, John M,
Johanna A, Darwin and some others) Ecuador (Alma A, Ivonne C, Vladymir, Tatiana C, Lizzeth
L and Maria, there are some others I dont remember right now), Venezuela (Oliver A,
Jorge H, Mauro R even though he doesnt study here anymore, I considers him my
friend) Dominican Republic (Julio R), there are many other friends from other countries,
to all them: I love you all. But there are four girls, they are so nice and I
really like them, these are Estefania, Clara, Tatiana, and Lizzeth, and I say they area
nice because I can count on them all the time, Thank you friends!!!.
In my country my favorite music were only salsa, reggae and
Peruvian music like valses and techno-cumbias, I loved to dance, it was like expressing
what I was feeling, like how happy I was while dancing and each time I went to a party, I
always wanted to dance with one of my friends Cesar P, he was so cute and nice and he
really knew what dance was, I liked him a lot. One thing I liked to do was to dance salsa
while imitating the singer, even though I hadnt a good voice (either I do now). Click here to listen one of my favorite songs in Peru.The type of music I really knew how to dance was reggae; I always wanted
to call the attention in parties, thats why I like to danced real hot, I always felt
the music and dance, but tehno-cumbia was a beautiful kind of music too, I also liked to
dance that. Well...now in this country I like to dance much more types of music, from
other countries like salsa, merengue, bachata, vallenato, reggae, and others types of
music that in my country I didnt know about, but now I like to dance, this is the
hip-pop. I love to practice how to dance those types of music with my friends, so that I
can learn something new. I feel so good when I go to parties and listen to those types of
music, there is a song that I like to hear, and it is "hoja en blanco", a
bachata, a nice song, old but nice, but the song I like the best is "One Minute
Man" from Missy Elliot, that's a great song.
In Peru my life was so different then what it is now. All my life
I lived with my mom, 1 brother and 3 sisters. I never lived with my dad, actually I met
him when I was 4, and before that I thought that my moms brother (uncle) was my
"papito", but he wasnt and now I understand, and I call him uncle. Anyway
in 1998, when I stilled living in Peru my two older sisters came to this country and my
life changed a lot, I had to wake up early, help my mom to get her business (selling fresh
chicken) ready, go to my house finish my homework, clean while cooking for my mom brother
and sister, take a shower, put on my uniform and go to school. When I was back from school
I helped my mom to close up her business and then my mom cooked the dinner and we ate,
(her cooking is so good) and I started to do my homework and then I went to sleep,
difficult uhhh! Kind of too much tension. But Sundays were my day off, I could go to
parties or sometimes my mom took my brother sister and me to walk and we ate out the
dinner, my life was just fine, we had such a great time together and sometimes my
moms boyfriend took us to eat on nights and talk a little about our lives, I liked
that a lot. I always thought I didnt need my father of nothing, I mean that I could
live without him and it was true, my brother, sisters, my mom and me suffered a lot
because of him and his family (private). I have think about it, and I think I will talk
about this part a little more; my fathers family is really mean and has always made
our lives difficult,my mom told me that this whole thing started when my dad and she were
just getting together, they never accepted her, so they were always mean, and know what?,
they were the ones that paid for my dad to come here, they were owning too much money, but
they didn't care,they just wanted my dad far away so that they can make up so many stories
about my mom, can you imagine that made up that my mom was going out with my dad's
cousins, and my believed it, that's why I haven't met my uncle yet, I just know that he
works in a famous television channel in Peru. But they paying for my dad to come here made
us a big favor in a way, because now we are all here. My aunts always said my mom had
another husband, yeah husband Not a boyfriend but husband
how stupid right? They
kept telling me "where is your new daddy?" I hated that a lot.They kept saying
that my sisters, brother and me had been smoking marihuana JA, JA, JA. They made up so
many stories that my dad always believed on them and he decided to send the money of the
month to them and they had to give some money dairy to us, but they never did and when
they did, they gave us like 5 soles that is like 2 dollars here, we couldnt buy
something good to eat, so my mom kept going to the stores and asking seller to give her
food and later she would pay. I remember once when my aunts had spend all the money on who
knows what? And we didnt have nothing to eat, it was about 7:00 PM and the only
thing we had eat was sweet potato, but then my mom talked to one of her friends (now her
boyfriend) and she cooked chicken soup, and we all ate, delicious we all said.
It was so sad to live like that, we were really very young, I think I was 7 or something,
and my aunts didnt care!! I dont want to talk about this anymore, Im
starting to cry, the only thing I can tell you is that my moms boyfriend was and is
so nice to us, even if he didnt have money we all accepted him, and now he is not
rich, but at least he works a lot and has money. He was so nice that he constructed specie
of desk for my mom to sell something and have money, so my mom worked and since then we
didnt have to ask my aunts for my dads money. About my aunts, well... they are
kind of paying, because now they are the ones that dont have money to eat, its
not that Im happy because of that, but you can see that if you do something bad to
someone, then something bad can happen to you, everything goes around. Im sorry but
I cant tell you more stories of my life, but I would start crying again remembering
those things.
Since 1999 I live with my dad, my mom, my brother and my sisters
better said with all my family. At the beginning, my life here was so difficult and even
worse living with my dad, because he was always angry of everything and I wasnt
adapted to him, But anyway I didnt have to fight with him a lot, he had two jobs and
was in my house only weekends and during nights, but now I can live with him, even if he
is all day at home and works at night, I dont fight too much with him. But anyway my
life changed because I have to wake up early, go to school, when Im back in my house
I eat, do my homework and clean until my mom gets home at about 11:45 PM., but I like more
living in Peru, even thought my life was difficult there. One thing I like o living here
is that we life far away from my dads family, they are so mean and always did bad
things to us, and these were really bad things and there were many of them, there are so
many that I will need about "10 to 15" pages to talk about them all. But if Peru
could have as much opportunities as here, it would be the best place to live, because Peru
is a beautiful place, It has many forestall places where you can breath fresh air and you
can feel the good smell of flowers, It also has many typical foods that taste so good, but
the problem there is that there are not enough jobs for everybody and sometimes you can
see the streets dirty, but the neighbors always pay to someone to clean them up. If I
would have to choose between living in Peru and living her, it would be like choosing
between Brad Pitt and Leonardo DiCaprio. Well, that was it about my life, hope you
enjoyed it, thanks for your attention, Anne Garcia t also has many typical foods that
taste so good, but the problem there is that there are not enough jobs for everybody and
sometimes you can see the streets dirty, but the neighbors always pay to someone to clean
them up. If I would have to choose between living in Peru and living her, it would be like
choosing between My dog in Peru and my turtles here.
Well, that was it about my life, hope you enjoyed it, thanks for
your attention, Anne. |